Ready to own “your one wild and precious life?”
Fuck expectations.
Fuck conditioning.
Fuck the rules about who you “should be” and what you’re allowed to want.
What do you truly want — beneath the noise, beneath the shoulds?
Do you even know?
Can you let yourself name it?
Could you dare to invite it closer?
I’m here to help you quiet the noise and feel what’s true.
To welcome desire with arms wide open — ready to receive.
To help you find the words and the courage to live and speak your truth.
If this resonates with you…
If you want to remember…
If you’re ready to begin…
How can we connect?
With Intimacy
With Play
With Art
Who am I?
I am a Dakini — here on Earth to live with an open heart, speak truth, create beauty, and embody freedom.
I help people reawaken the parts of themselves that grew quiet — the voice, the body, the desires — so they can expand back into their full aliveness.
Truth. Beauty. Freedom. Fire.
I’m a maverick.
I follow rules only when they serve truth.
I burn through limitation with the torch of love.
My name, Kailani, is Hawaiian for ‘Sea and Sky’.
I am a spiritual being from the heavens, choosing a human experience in this divine body temple — a journey that’s deep, ever-shifting, and sometimes turbulent, just like the ocean.
My work is to live in full self-expression:
to inhabit my body completely,
let Eros move freely,
create without apology,
speak truth with courage,
and live as unbound as possible.
I am trained in health coaching, yet my practice is rooted in tantra — the art of knowing, speaking, and owning what we truly want, and communicating so that we can be deeply seen, heard, and known.
I am Fire. I am Water. I am Air. I am Earth. I am Metal. I am of nature, and you are too.
My Intention
To help people come home to themselves through connection — to meet their own divinity through the mirror of another.
When we live from this place of embodied truth, everything transforms: our health, our relationships, our creativity, our peace.
Peruse my Musings
This Witch is Lit
There is a flame inside a woman that burns like radiant sunshine.It is ancient. Wild. Holy.Many have feared this incandescent power.He has tried to possess it, control it, tame it…
When We Fawn In The Bedroom
“I didn’t say no. But I didn’t say yes either.”I just lay there, silent.Letting him do what he wanted with my body.While I disappeared off to another place, crying, silently, into the pillow…
Erotic Sovereignty
For many of us, feeling powerful in our sexuality often hasn’t felt safe. We associate sexual expression with danger, shame or wanton objectification. We’ve learned that being too magnetic…